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		<title>Ladies and Gentlemen</title>
		<link>http://geeketiquette.com/archives/2007/05/03/ladies-and-gentlemen/</link>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a thread going on the London Perl Mongers mailing list, wherein one poster thoughtlessly addressed his email to &#8220;Gentlemen&#8221; and got called on it.
It&#8217;s easy to do, and there&#8217;s no reason not to when you know that the group you&#8217;re talking to are all men.  But what if you don&#8217;t know?  What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s <a href="http://london.pm.org/pipermail/london.pm/Week-of-Mon-20070430/007650.html">a thread</a> going on the <a href="http://london.pm.org/">London Perl Mongers</a> mailing list, wherein one poster thoughtlessly addressed his email to &#8220;Gentlemen&#8221; and got called on it.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to do, and there&#8217;s no reason not to when you know that the group you&#8217;re talking to are all men.  But what if you don&#8217;t know?  What if you only <i>think</i> you know?  What if the &#8220;Chris&#8221; you&#8217;ve been emailing for months is really &#8220;Christine&#8221;?  What if the person you think is &#8220;Mr Robert Kirrily&#8221; is &#8220;Ms Kirrily Robert&#8221; (not that I&#8217;m bitter about that, or anything).  </p>
<p>Better to use a more general form of address.  It&#8217;s not that hard; there are plenty available, from &#8220;Hi&#8221; to &#8220;Greetings, mortals!&#8221;  (Be careful, though, that there are no undead in your recipients list.)</p>
<p>Bonus points, by the way, to the men of london.pm who pointed out the error with a certain degree of <a href="http://london.pm.org/pipermail/london.pm/Week-of-Mon-20070430/007651.html">good</a> <a href="http://london.pm.org/pipermail/london.pm/Week-of-Mon-20070430/007549.html">humour</a>; it&#8217;s often better (and easier) for those who are not directly affected to <a href="http://geeketiquette.infotrope.net/archives/2007/03/31/i-dont-like-this-kind-of-talk/">point out rudeness</a> than it is for those who are.</p>
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